A 's Guide To Happiness Podcast - Episode 20: Soft and Life Beyond Dysfunction - with Steph Takaya
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Have you ever struggled to get or stay hard during ? Loved or dated with someone whose stays soft? Been in a situation where people with s in the room are embarrassed when they don't get it up? Both that sometimes stay soft depending on the situation (e.g. with a new partner or during group ) and that are chronically soft (what doctors sometimes call “ dysfunction”) can be a source of embarrassment and frustration for owners. Steph, who has experienced life with a soft for many years now, describes their process of unlearning these negative emotions and reconnecting with their body.
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Welcome back to a **** Guide to Happiness,
where your body is perfectly imperfect,
and it's safe to be as ******* as you want.
I'm really grateful that we get to talk with Steph again today.
Last time they joined us on the podcast,
they shared their experiences with ***** and relationships
as a person with autism, as an autistic person.
Today, Steph and I are going to be talking about a super ***y topic,
and I want to reclaim this as a super ***y topic, folks.
We're going to be talking about soft ****,
including the medicalized language of ***** dysfunction,
societal expectations of performative ***,
and hot bodies that **** in all kinds of ways.
Steph is a ****, queer, switchy witch,
a community healer, content creator, a friend,
and an emotional support **** with Cliff Media.
So, while there's plenty of patriarchal ideas
about how a female body is supposed to look,
I am lucky that there are fewer ***
about how our bodies as women, as female bodies,
as people with *****,
are supposed to work during ***.
So if my ****** doesn't get hard,
people aren't as likely to notice
and normative, kind of straight ****ing can still happen.
But if someone with a **** doesn't get hard,
regardless of their gender, whether that's a cisgender man,
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