A 's Guide To Happiness Podcast - Episode 22: Starring in a as a Trans Woman - with Roxie Valentine
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If you've ever fantasized about being at the center of a , you're certainly not alone! A study released by adult sites found that “” was the 7th most popular search term for women. Turns out a lot of us want to get by a crowd. Roxie Valentine, a leader with Cliff Media, a women and queer-led production company, dishes on her recent experience starring in two scenes. She explains how she prepared physically and emotionally in the days leading up to the event, including how she got over feeling nervous. She also describes conversations about enthusiastic consent with participants in advance of the scenes that helped put her at ease and create a safer environment.
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Welcome back to a Slots Guide to Happiness,
where your body is perfectly imperfect,
and it is safe to be as *****, queer,
or **** as you want.
As you know, I love wearing costumes and clothes
that express joy, **** fun,
or my feelings about being in the world.
So today's shirt says,
rule number one, **** what they think.
The reason why I love this shirt isn't necessarily
because I think that other people's ideas don't matter,
actually quite the opposite.
I think that all ideas are the product
of collective thought and knowledge.
We build ideas together.
And I think that learning from each other
is super important, and getting feedback,
especially from those people who are close to you,
who believe in what you're doing,
who believe in you,
who want to build beautiful things together.
But the people who want to shame you,
when you are pursuing kind things,
when you are listening to feedback
from people who wanna encourage growth in your life,
and experiencing joy in your life,
then the people who just want to shame you for your joy
aren't worth your head space.
So, **** what they think.
If they have a problem with your joy,
**** what they think,
which is really relevant to what we'll get into
in just a little minute.
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