A Slut's Guide To Happiness Podcast - Episode 25: Unburying Yourself: Finding Your Way to Authenticity - With Lupin
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Becoming your authentic self, especially when your authentic desires conflict with the values in your family of origin, can be an incredibly difficult process. At the time of this recording (life is always changing!), Lupin identifies as a queer man, exploring polyamory and porn work. His life wasn't always this way and we talk with him about a beautiful moment of transition in his life, as he continues figuring out his new relationship to these identities and communities. Growing up in a conservative environment in Virginia, Lupin didn't have many connections to queer or non-monogamous people. He faced racial discrimination as a Black man and bullying, the combination of which made it even harder to come out.
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Welcome back to a Slut's Guide to Happiness,
where your body is perfectly imperfect,
and it's safe to be as sexual, kinky, queer, or slutty
as you want.
Today, we're joined by Lupin, an amazing videographer,
photographer, creative mind, and soon-to-be performer
with Cliff Media.
I hear he's coming to the outdoor orgy in August.
That's pretty exciting.
I'm actually really looking forward to that.
Hell, yes.
Lupin is also a tech guru.
And I've always been a right-brain person.
I love people, relationships, emotions, visual arts, writing.
And yet, he is both a left and right-brain person,
which is just kind of--
is really impressive to me that he is left-dominant at work,
it seems, and right-dominant in his personal endeavors,
including with his creative role with Cliff Media.
And one of the many reasons why I'm
so excited to talk to Lupin today
is that he's not going to be telling a prepackaged story,
right, like wrapped with a bow, where there's a beginning,
middle, and end, and arrival point.
This is much more like a snapshot
in a time of ongoing exploration.
And I love this vulnerability and humility so much.
Holding space for not knowing, even or especially not fully
knowing ourselves, is so important for all of us.
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