Bear Instincts Pushing the Limits

What do I do?"

And the first thing I tell them is, "If you're really going down this path, make sure in

your heart that when you give yourself up to somebody, you are giving the largest, biggest,

most tremendous gift that anyone can give another human being.

And that's your life, your very soul, your well-being.

Everything goes to one person."

And that goes back to Mark's point is that responsibility is huge.

Because once you accept that responsibility, that weight becomes very, very strong on your

shoulders.

It should be pleasurable, but very often there's a very real piece there that has to be dealt

with on a daily basis.

You have to maintain a good relationship.

You have to maintain a semblance of training and decorum, protocol.

You can't just let your slave flounder on his own.

He comes to you for guidance and you're the light for him.

He's not a slave otherwise.

He's there for a reason.

He needs to lean upon a powerful, strong figure.

And to walk away from that or diminish it in any way is a crime.