Tantra 1

Man's reality resides in his genitals.

When we touch there, we are saying I see you, I love you, I care for you.

So with your hand you touch his sexuality, with the intention to give him the highest love.

This is the difference between women being massaged and men.

With women we start with the heart, and with men we start with their sexuality.

As you begin to massage, it's important to remember, never lose body contact with him.

Even as you move around his body, at no point should you lose that contact.

If you break contact with his body, his experience is, she has left me.

Remember the importance of this throughout the entire massage.

It doesn't matter how or where the touch is maintained, just so long as it is.

It can be only one finger, just so he knows you are there.

Use your hand, foot, breast, elbow, your bottom.

The only thing is body contact of some sort all the time.

Remember, have everything you need, oils and other things, close at hand.

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